One concept that I found interesting from chapter 6 was the relationship maintenance strategies that people use to keep their relationships at a desired level. Each behavior that the textbook provides is a very important component that should be used to keep and maintain any relationship. I believe that the first behavior, positivity, is the most important out of them all. Table 6.2 in the text states that positivity is being “cheerful and optimistic, building each other’s self-esteem, being patient and forgiving, and refraining from criticizing one another”. Without these qualities, the relationship will have negative vibes, resulting in an unsuccessful relationship. The two next behaviors are incredibly important as well. Openness is the ability to disclose personal feelings and needs, which is tied in with honesty. The third most important behavior is assurance. The commitment and demonstration of faithfulness is considered to be the behavior of assurance, as well as the belief that the relationship has a future. Although networks, task sharing, conflict management, and advice sharing/offering are also part of relational maintenance behaviors, the three that I described are the top behaviors that will help in making a relationship succeed.
Hey Kylie,
ReplyDeleteI truly believe and agree with you that in order to create a successful relationship, we must follow the relationship maintenance strategies concept. This relates much of how successful I am with the current person that I am seeing. In my case, I am dealing with a long distance relationship that is crucial to apply the concept in my relationship. Otherwise, there would be doubts on maintaining a healthy relationship. Like with any relationship, effective communication is the key. Without it, relationships would fall apart so easily. However, you'll find it very rewarding when you accomplish all three positivity, openness, and assurance.
Hey Kylie! As I was reading this in the book, I wasn’t completely sure whether or not I agreed. After reading your post I really like how you said that behavior and positivity is the most important of them all. I do agree that those two are most important. I believe that people must know themselves first and have good attitudes before getting into a relationship with someone else. I think that couples these days get into relationships too fast and don’t realize that these strategies are important. Openness is also important because if you aren’t honest with one another that can definitely ruin the relationship. I think it really has a lot to do with the understanding of each other in the relationship.
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ReplyDeleteI also found the relationship maintenance strategies to be an interesting concept in this chapter. All of the behaviors are important for a relationship to stay strong and work out to be the best a relationship can be. I think that assurance and openness are two of the top behaviors that should be extra strong in a relationship. It’s always nice to know that things are going well and that it’s working out the way it should. Also a couple should always be able to open up to the other person and know that they can trust each other. Each of the behaviors are important and needed overall.
Hello Kylie, I really enjoyed reading your post because you mentioned that every behavior has it’s important component and I totally agree. I also agree with you, that the most important component is positivity. I believe that is the fundamental start in having a good relationship. When people in relationships are positive, they will simply deal with things in a better way. When this happens, they feel better about themselves and there will be less conflict and disagreements. I believe that patience play a big role in positivity. I have noticed with my current partner, that when I do not have patience, we end up arguing and having problems. I noticed I’m impatient when I’m stressed and have a lot to do. I’m trying to remain positive, because I do notice it helps our relationship when I do, and so far it’s been going great.
ReplyDeleteHi! First off I really enjoyed reading your post because I thought it was well written and was very detailed and easy to read. I agree with your ideas on this section of the chapter and your views on relationships. Like you said positivity is very important to maintaining a strong relationship. When it is a positive environment for both people in the relationship, chances are both people are very happy. Openness and assurance are also very important factors as well. A combination of all three is key for a good relationship. Great post and keep up the good work!!
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